David Essel Alive: Guests, May 19, Positive Radio

"YES!! Another amazing line up of guests this week for David Essel Alive! America's Positive Radio Show"...... ...Saturdays 6-9pm est, 3-6pm pst.......... XM Radio CH 168.... or listen FREE online at www.davidessel.com . Celebrating 21 years in talk radio:

.....Michelle Duggar- Author: "A Love That Multiplies- An Upclose View of How They Make It Work"

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.....Pamela Bruner: Author- "Tapping Into Ultimate Success: How to Overcome Any Obstacle and Skyrocket Your Results" Pamela became a Millionaire in less that 3 years, by ....ready????...."TAPPING on her head????"..YES, tune in as we explore a powerful, strange, real, life changing technique.

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......Dr. Barbara Keesling - Author: "How to Make Love All Night (and Drive a Woman Wild Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking)

OK men, here is your chance to learn how to make love, from one of America's top sex experts!!!

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"David Essel Alive!" Guest Producer

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"David is the radiant soul of radio. He is brilliant, insightful and easy to listen to. David makes a real difference in his listeners' lives." ~Mark Victor Hansen, Chicken Soup for the Soul

Release "The Bitch" within. It's time. =)

So, what is the "bitch within"? Or better yet, who is it? And how do we release it?

Many of us have been trained to "play nice, don't rock the boat, and whatever you do, make sure no one ever gets upset wit you!"

The reality is, the opposite is what is needed to live an emotionally healthy life.

Watch this short video to see what I mean.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1oNBl-dsVc

Slow down, release the bitch within, in a respectful way. =)

Love, david http://www.davidessel.com

Breaking Through Our Creative Blocks for Success

During a recent lifestyle coaching session, one of my clients asked if we could discuss the various causes behind our "creative blocks" in life. Probably the most noted one is "writer's block," when we hit a wall in trying to create, begin, or finish anything from a homework assignment, speech, or actual literary project.

But these blocks can also arise with projects that pertain to music, art, or even trying to decide how to landscape our yard. The block many times will manifest itself as procrastination — with a seeming lack of creativity we put off finishing projects we are working on or find a thousand reasons why we don't even begin them.


While there may be many causes for creative block, I believe the most prolific ones have to do with : 1) a mental, physical, or spiritual fatigue; or 2) a self limiting judgment/belief that questions "who are we to be creative" . . . or "who are we to take this time for ourselves to . . .".
If we are fatigued mentally, physically, or spiritually, our ability to be creative diminishes greatly. Creativity needs to come from a place that is well nourished, a mind that is relaxed, open and intuitive, a body that is rested and well fed, and a spiritual foundation that is supported by daily prayer, meditation, and gratitude. If you personally hit a creative block, evaluate yourself against these three criteria and make the changes necessary. I'd even recommend putting a project off if possible for a few days so that you can focus on nourishing your mind, body, and spirit. Creativity will then begin to flow naturally.


The second major cause of these creative blocks has to do with our own self-limiting judgments or beliefs. The thought may arise . . . "Who am I to think I'm creative enough to write for that magazine, to direct the school play, or to speak to this group." This judgment can easily stop us cold and present a block in the form of procrastination. Or we may struggle with the belief that it is selfish for us to take time away from other responsibilities (family, friends, etc.) to go after our dreams. "Who do I think I am spending this hour writing or playing the piano when I should be . . .".

These conscious and subconscious thoughts easily derail us from pursuing our goals, blocking creativity, and create the perfect opportunity to procrastinate. What we forget to realize is that if we are pursuing dreams and goals that nurture our own purpose here, we'll actually bring more zest, vitality and love to those around us.

We can only lose if we submerge our true passions.
Create the space to nurture your essence and to release these self-limiting judgments. It is at this place that creativity will flow non-stop.

Slow down to release any and all creative blocks today.

Love, peace, REv. David www.davidessel.com
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Emotional Recovery: It takes a Professional, or Two

A client walked in several months ago, sat down and proudly proclaimed she would not need to go through with our planned work together as she had diagnosed her own issues, and was well on her way to self healing. She had read enough books, received more information off of the inter net, and now was going to heal her emotional problems from her past, by herself.

This was not, unfortunately, this first time I had seen this very same experience in my office occur. As she left, I wished her the very best, and said a prayer that if she did not follow through with the work we had planned, that she would find another professional to work with.

Issues of abandonment from our childhood, emotional or physical abuse from any age, or low self worth followed by continued self sabotaging behaviors will rarely, if ever, be healed by ourselves.

The reason this client left, or others choose to bypass a professionals assistance is because they really do not want to do the deep work necessary to get past their past experiences. Why? Because, there often is alot of work to be done. Work that while not necessarily fun in the moment, brings huge relief down the road.

I know myself, for years I tried to heal my own issues of abandonment by myself, and thought I had until they would raise their head again somehow in a business or personal relationship. I finally relented, and got the most amazing help from both a relationship coach and a therapist.

I pulled the same "I can heal/fix myself" attitude when I finally faced my alcoholism. Guess what? Yes, you're right, it never worked until I surrendered to a team of professionals.

If you're reading this and have experienced emotional issues in relationships, intimate ones or maybe with your core family members, get out of denial, get out of the delusion that you can fix yourself. You simply cannot.

Slow down, and ask a professional for help today for long lasting emotional recovery. . And do not expect a correct diagnosis, or even the perfect plan of action for up to 4- 8 sessions of working together. The professional coach, counselor or therapist will need at least that much time for a correct diagnosis.

(ps....After months of trying to heal herself, with no results, I'm excited to say this former client has finally surrendered, and is working one on one with two fantastic professionals. As I see her changes weekly, I can say that what held her back before, will finally be released for good.)

Love, peace, Rev. David http://www.davidessel.com/

Your mind, Your success machine...

Did you know that the only thing that separates you...from living the wildly successful life you desire, is your mind? Your mind is your success machine.

As I assist individuals from all walks of life to create a new reality, their own dreams as their reality, some will fly forward and see amazing results in just a few months. While others will fall off path, and recreate the drama and struggle they've wanted to leave behind.

So, what is the difference between these people? The way they use their minds.

Here's a powerful example.

Two clients last year were going through both bankruptcy and foreclosures.

One had worked diligently on the power of transformational thinking, a tool I use in my work that eliminates the stories we tell ourselves that hold us back. The second person wanted to believe that this tool would work for them, but would not do the daily mental and written exercises recommended.

In both of these cases, one of their "stories" was that only "losers" go bankrupt, and only "losers" foreclose on their homes.

The reality is quite the opposite in most cases, as brilliant , amazing people go bankrupt every year.

The first person recovered emotionally almost overnight from the bankruptcy, and in 3 months was back to their positive, powerful self...knowing that success was once again right around the corner.

The second individual is still struggling with low self esteem and a diminished energy level. A pure shame because they are such a great person!!

Your mind, if fed daily with the right material, and if this coincides with a powerful writing program with time lined action steps, is truly your personal success machine.

Slow down.

Love, peace David Essel www.talkdavid.com

Ps....please check out our Life Coach/Life Mastery Workshops, that we offer via telelclass across the world, and in Ft Myers Florida at Edison State College and surrounding facilities.

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