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The caller wanted to know why it was unhealthy to put everyone else in her life first.
She was raised that way, where her needs were not that important.
Are you happy in life? , I asked. Life could be better she said.
And your body, are you happy with that?
Honestly I could stand to lose 50 pounds, but I have no time for exercise.
The more we talked, the easier it was for her to see she was addicted to codependency.
The need to be liked, accepted, and the fear of rejection, abandonment.
Codependents live a life of unease, fearful to really be themselves.
Watch this video, to see what I mean.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JAL5l2pLHRw
It is by far the biggest addiction in the world!
First, step one, we have to see the truth, that this is ruling our lives.
That we fear being honest with everyone, because they might not then like us.
Step 2, is to get help, and lovingly begin to set aside time for our lives, our goals, our happiness.
For the past 25 years, we have helped thousands of people heal from codependency.
Contact us today and we will do the same for you. 941.266.7676 or via our website, www.davidessel.com
Showing posts with label victim. Show all posts
Showing posts with label victim. Show all posts
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Monday, May 23, 2011
"VICTIMS" Never Heal. Important information.
One of the most important topics that we could ever cover comes from an old true, saying....victims never heal.
EVER. EVER. EVER.
And sadly, many of us who are "victims" in life, to a former or current lover, our genetics, the economy or even an abusive family upbringing, may not even realize the victim role we have been playing for years.
Watch this short video to see what I mean.
The good news? Once we do the work to release the victim mentality, we can heal faster than a speeding bullet. =)
Slow down.
Love, david http://www.davidessel.com
Friday, May 20, 2011
"Victims" Never Heal. Important information.
One of the most important topics that we could ever cover comes from an old true, saying....victims never heal.
EVER. EVER. EVER.
And sadly, many of us who are "victims" in life, to a former or current lover, our gentetics, the economy or even an abusive family upbringing, may not even realize the victim role we have been playing for years.
Watch this short video to see what I mean.
The good news? Once we do the work to release the victim mentality, we can heal faster than a speeding bullet. =)
Slow down.
Love, david http://www.davidessel.com
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
The Biggest, silent, addiction today?
What do you think the biggest addiction facing the world today is? When we think of the word addiction, most of us go right to alcohol, or smoking, or drugs.
Yet, there is a bigger one, that is hidden amongst most of us, and unless you're around someone who is in treatment for it, you don't even consider it an addiction.
Watch.
This addiction, kills more relationships, and stunts the potential of most of us in our attempt to live a peaceful life. Drama surrounds us, when we refuse to get help for this problem.
Slow down, love yourself enough, to ask for help.
Love, peace, david. http://www.davidessel.com
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