Tuesday, March 20, 2012
David Essel Alive: Guests, Mar. 24th, Positive Radio
Thursday, March 8, 2012
Women's group delivers huge benefits! Success arrives.
CONTACT: Tina Haisman, APR, CPRC 239.292.2882
David Essel, M.S., 941.266.7676
Women’s Support Group Participants Report Huge Gains in Life
After the inaugural session of David Essel’s Women’s Group on Personal Growth, a life-coaching support group, participants reported huge gains in their lives. Now, a new group session begins on March 20.
(March 8, 2011) FORT MYERS, FL – It’s no secret that women need the friendship of other women to survive and thrive in life. In fact, researchers have said not having close friends or confidants is as detrimental to a woman’s health as smoking or carrying extra weight.
That’s one of the main reasons Master Life Coach, Author, Speaker and National Radio Host David Essel has created a new support group in Southwest Florida. It’s called the Women’s Group on Personal Growth and is a gathering of like-minded women who support each other on the path to greater personal freedom, happiness and success. The next session of the group begins March 20.
As a result of the last 8-week group session, one woman passed a medical board exam she had failed on two previous attempts, another sold three houses in a slow market, another was offered a dream job from seemingly out of nowhere, and yet another celebrated eight consecutive weeks sober!
“Individually, these women decided they wanted to become more successful in life, but it was together, in the group atmosphere, that they accomplished their goals,” Essel said. “There is so much power in a group setting.”
The next session of the Women's Group on Personal Growth will meet every Tuesday, beginning March 20, from 6-7 p.m., at Fitness on the Move, located at 13010 Metro Parkway in Fort Myers. The session will run for eight weeks, and the cost is $200 for the entire 8-week session. For more information on the group, watch this short video.
As participants in the group, women support and encourage one another as they tackle tough life issues such as:
- Breaking through procrastination
- Finding their dream job
- Creating deeper love lives
- Building deeper friendships
- Letting go of resentments
- Discovering the real reasons behind weight gain
- Developing a more powerful relationship with God, or a Higher Power
- Letting go of dependency on alcohol, food, prescription drugs, smoking, spending, or co-dependent unhealthy relationships.
To register for the Women’s Group on Personal growth, click here or contact David Essel at 941.266.7676 or david@davidessel.com.
Facilitator David Essel is a master life and business coach, author of six books, adjunct professor, addiction recovery coach, all faiths minister and international speaker. He is also host of the national radio show "David Essel Alive!" that airs on XM Satellite Radio Channel 168, where you’ll also find Glenn Beck and Dave Ramsey, every Saturday from 6-9 p.m. EST or streaming online for free at www.davidessel.com.
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About David Essel, M.S.
David Essel, M.S. is an author of six books, national radio and television host, master life and business coach, adjunct professor, all faiths minister, addiction recovery coach and international speaker. His mission is to inspire others to reach their own exceptional potential in their business and personal life. For more information, visit him on the web atwww.davidessel.com.
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Alcohol Recovery: A success story.
Saturday, August 6, 2011
Addiction Recovery Workshop: Aug. 13, SW Florida
Thursday, July 28, 2011
We can be TOTALLY free of addictions or cravings!
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Holistic Addiction Recovery Office, Fort Myers, Fl.
Friday, April 8, 2011
How to "attract money"...for our personal growth.
Sunday, April 4, 2010
My Clients Walk into Sobriety: Step 1: Surrender
I wanted more
I became irrational
I couldn’t help myself
My life was unmanageable:
I drove drunk
Spent too much money
Gained weight
Lost energy and work time
Life was harder
Emotions built up
All sorts of resentments built up and lived under the surface for years, covered up, escaping my conscious thought but all the while hurting me. And now I’m dealing with all that.
I find my strength in recovery by being vulnerable and honest and doing something about these emotions and by releasing them. By talking, writing and going to God. God says thank you Angela for trusting me and coming to me. I will never leave you or forsake you. I’ll always be by your side. The other day I was so ashamed and guilty for so many things. The feelings came up and were with me for about 16 hours. I had to sit down and work to identify the feelings, sit with them, surrender to them and write them down. This is what is called walking into the fire.
In the fire, what I discovered by sitting with these feelings is that my deepest pain is my unworthiness. Unworthiness is a core issue for many people and is a driver for unhealthy behavior, thoughts and feelings. It is tied to low self esteem (check), wanting to be accepted (check) and trying hard to fit in (yep, that was me too). It’s also tied to a lack of spirituality and being disconnected from a Higher Power. I sat with this, talked about it, cried, reached out and prayed. And I inched a little closer toward worthiness through gratitude, self care, connection to others and God, forgiveness and prayer. I want to emphasize the importance of reaching out to others. If you’re like me and want to recover alone it will never work. One of the keys to admitting we are powerless and having a chance at true recovery is reaching out for help.
Thank you God and thank you all my friends and family who surround me with love and support every day.
With an open heart,
Angela
Sunday, March 7, 2010
My Sobriety: One Moment with God, Life Changing.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
We can change at any age!
"I can't handle this roller coaster ride anymore, I love him dearly, we've been married almost 40 years, but we need help, he needs help now! Or I will have to leave him. "
For many of us in life, we've bought into the old saying, that "you can't teach an old dog new tricks. " That belief is so outdated, yet many hold onto it mainly due to their fear of change. Yes, change can be scary at any age, yet in my line of work, it is the pathways to success, peace, love, and happiness.
The next day, this couple came into my office and the anxiety was written on both of their faces. Mark, had been struggling for the past 2 years with alcohol. At 85 years of age, he had rarely drank at all, and now over the past 24 months, he had been hiding his drinking, lying about it, and in the process every time he drank he became intolerant, obstinate and arrogant towards his wife.
He was open to help, and somewhat willing to meet with me everyday for 30 straight days, either over the phone or in person, but neither of them were aware that the shift would be so amazing, so incredible, over a short one month time period!
Here's what Mark had to say about his program of change.
"I wanted to save my marriage, and knew what I was doing was wrong, but I did not know how to change it on my own. I reached out to David, but had no idea that I could change so many things, including my attitude and my understanding of God, in such a short period of time!
His program was exactly what I needed to get focused, and to have a daily plan to follow to get me back on track. In all my years of church, which I love, I really did not believe that God, as I understood Him, could love me so personally, and care about me, my marriage, and my sobriety so deeply.
David's program and caring, has led me to a whole new life, I kid you not! At my age, I wasn't sure at all , that this could all happen, especially in just 30 days. It's been a miracle for me, and has proven to me that anyone can change at any age, and get the life of love and peace they want.
I truly recommend that anyone who wants a new life, a great, great life, should work with David and his program. My wife now tells me everyday, that our marriage is better now than it has ever been over the past 40 years! And she's right! Our thanks are very deep, and from our heart. "
As I re read his words, I know that it is true for anyone, at any age to change for the better. To find deep passionate love, to find inner peace, to create an income they love, a career they adore , a deeper connection of spirituality or religion, and anything else you could ever desire.
Decide today is the day to change regardless of what your age is, and reach out and ask for help.
Slow down.
Love, peace, David http://www.davidessel.com
Friday, April 10, 2009
Surrender Part 2: Alcohol..The Accepted Addiction
Now, this might be the person who drinks only on New Years Eve, yet once they begin they don't want to stop.
Or it could be the one who simply celebrates weddings and birthdays with drinks, that could never stop at just one.
And, it could be the person who has just wine with dinner, every dinner, and the thought of not being able to enjoy those drinks makes them irritable.
It could be your husband or wife, who seem to handle their alcohol quite well, although you have no idea that they're actually sneaking drinks when you're not around...or making sure their wine glass is always topped off, so that it doesn't look like they're really drinking alot.
I fall into many categories when it comes to being an alcoholic, thankfully and gratefully in recovery, and got away with it for years because it is such an acceptable addiction.
We rationalize drinks when we're stressed, tired, excited, elated, bored, mad, discouraged, happy....when it's Friday, Saturday, Sunday with the game, Monday , Tuesdays, "Hump day"...just to get through the week.
I think you get the picture.
Alcohol is available everywhere, and for anyone in business, it is the acceptable way to say" hi, goodbye, great to get the contract, I can't believe we didn't get the contract, let's brainstorm about business ideas"....and about 1 million other excuses to have that drink.
I was blessed several years ago, after over 30 years of being an addict and alcoholic myself, when a woman I was dating sat me down and told me her story of addiction, alcoholism,and recovery.
She finally told me after several months of dating, not because she wanted me to change, but she felt that if I heard it from someone else, I might leave her.
Wow, and do you know that her story moved me so, so deeply, that I finally surrendered.
Two days later, I admitted I had had a problem for years and years, and called the facility she went to and checked myself in over the phone.
Thirty days later, she drove me to the Hanley Center for Addiction and Alcoholism in West Palm Beach , Florida, and began my true surrender by walking through the doors for my 30 day stay.
Without a doubt, one of the most amazing moves that I have ever done in my entire life.
Pure fear coursed through my body as she left me in the detox wing. Tears of anxiety, loss, and wanting so badly to have her stay, so as I left one of my best friends I had had since 16, alcohol, at least she would be there.
That of course was against the rules, so I had to surrender all that I knew about feeling safe too.
I know that the full surrender to a higher power is the only proven way to sobriety.
Sobriety to any addiction, money, power, spending, nicotine, sex, negative thinking, low self worth, drugs, alcohol, food...is only truly possible through the path of surrender.
I had tried so many other paths, therapies, drugs to reduce cravings...and not one brought the full relief that surrender, part of all 12 Step programs, did.
If you're one of the millions who struggle with alcohol, make today the day you let go, trust God, find help.
I will forever be grateful to the woman who opened my eyes through her story, a story that changed my life forever.
Now, in my coaching practice, I am getting the chance to help hundreds of kids and adults get clean from alcohol and drug abuse.
The accepted addictions, aren't acceptable anymore.
Slow down.
Love, peace, David Essel www.talkdavid.com