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We fall in love, then months down the road there is what seems to be a decrease in our sexual compatibility with our partner.
How and why does this happen?
A caller explains her frustration with her boyfriend who at first was highly affectionate and sexual, more than meeting her needs, but recently she has to almost beg him to have sex! She had explained from the very beginning what her desires physically, emotionally were, and he seemed to be excited at all she wanted.
She is exhausted, and wondered if it was worth staying in the relationship.
Of course it is!.....was my reply.
But, in order for things to change, we have to see why he is pulling away, could it be a series of resentments on his part? Did he get "the prize" and now does not feel the need to please her as he did in the beginning?
We have answers, on this video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLM6zRjJdhs
Try, try, try to work it out via open and honest conversation.
In our work, most couples can reconnect so everyone's needs are being met.
For 25 years we have helped singles and couples create deep love through our workshops and 1 on 1 sessions, and we would love to do the same for you. Contact us today at www.davidessel.com or 941.266.7676.
We are ready to help!
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
The 3 Top reasons we lose interest in sex, with our partner
Some couples after just 4 months, lose interest in sex.
Others, after 14 years, and still others after 50 years.
Or one person loses interest and the other feels hurt, or even betrayed.
But why does this happen?
On this video, you will discover the 3 top reasons this happens, and what to do next.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3IjGVspm4A
Today, is the day to turn it all around.
If you need help, contact me at www.davidessel.com or call 941 266 7676.
For 25 years, we have helped thousands of couples regain lost interest in sex, and love.
Others, after 14 years, and still others after 50 years.
Or one person loses interest and the other feels hurt, or even betrayed.
But why does this happen?
On this video, you will discover the 3 top reasons this happens, and what to do next.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3IjGVspm4A
Today, is the day to turn it all around.
If you need help, contact me at www.davidessel.com or call 941 266 7676.
For 25 years, we have helped thousands of couples regain lost interest in sex, and love.
The Key to amazing sex? It is right here! From our XM Radio Show.
So, what is the KEY to amazing sex?
That one thing that if you do on a daily basis will keep those sensual fires burning whether you are in a new relationship or one that has lasted 30 years?
A listener recently emailed me on the show, saying she wanted her new relationship to stay hot for years to come, and could I help them make sure this happened!
I loved that question......and here is the answer on this video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7O4UP-07V0
Yes, keep it alive with this simple but important tip.
Join one of our workshops on love and intimacy, or contact us to work with David as your relationship expert, something he has done for over 25 years.
Contact us today at www.davidessel.com or call 941.266.7676.
We are ready to help.
That one thing that if you do on a daily basis will keep those sensual fires burning whether you are in a new relationship or one that has lasted 30 years?
A listener recently emailed me on the show, saying she wanted her new relationship to stay hot for years to come, and could I help them make sure this happened!
I loved that question......and here is the answer on this video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7O4UP-07V0
Yes, keep it alive with this simple but important tip.
Join one of our workshops on love and intimacy, or contact us to work with David as your relationship expert, something he has done for over 25 years.
Contact us today at www.davidessel.com or call 941.266.7676.
We are ready to help.
Cheating, affairs, that are not physical? Emotional affairs, from our XM Radio Show
Far more common than a physical affair are the emotional ones.
On our XM Radio show, we had a caller who tried to defend her lunches with a male friend, that she hid from her husband, as her right to do what she wanted in love as long as she did not have sex with anyone.
WRONG answer!
Watch this video as we explain what an emotional affair is and how damaging they are.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=87yMCJ32tAM
For 25 years we have helped thousands of people find and create deep love.
We would love to do the same for you.
Contact us at www.davidessel.com or call 941 266 7676. We are ready.
On our XM Radio show, we had a caller who tried to defend her lunches with a male friend, that she hid from her husband, as her right to do what she wanted in love as long as she did not have sex with anyone.
WRONG answer!
Watch this video as we explain what an emotional affair is and how damaging they are.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=87yMCJ32tAM
For 25 years we have helped thousands of people find and create deep love.
We would love to do the same for you.
Contact us at www.davidessel.com or call 941 266 7676. We are ready.
3 relationship wreckers in a new relationship, that can be avoided! Dating tips, from our XM Radio Show
When the call came in, I had to sit back and smile. Her question was so important for our million plus listeners to hear.
"David, what are 3 of the biggest relationship wreckers in the world in a new relationship?"
If you want deep love, please avoid these:
1. Saying yes, when you really mean no. If you hate sports, do not say you love them to win your partners affection. If they cook you a meal that you do not care for do not say "that was awesome!" BE HONEST from the very beginning.
2. Talking about your past lovers. NEVER! Especially not in a negative way!
3. Dropping all of your favorite past times, to be with your partner. A recipe for failure, and the building of resentments.
These are 3 of the biggest relationship wreckers, and if you AVOID THEM EARLY, OR AT THE VERY LEAST NOTICE THEM, YOU CAN GIVE YOURSELF THE BEST CHANCE FOR LASTING LOVE.
For 25 years, we have helped couples and singles create lasting deep love. Let us help you.
Information at www.davidessel.com or call Jennifer 239.340.2470 or David 941 266 7676.
"David, what are 3 of the biggest relationship wreckers in the world in a new relationship?"
If you want deep love, please avoid these:
1. Saying yes, when you really mean no. If you hate sports, do not say you love them to win your partners affection. If they cook you a meal that you do not care for do not say "that was awesome!" BE HONEST from the very beginning.
2. Talking about your past lovers. NEVER! Especially not in a negative way!
3. Dropping all of your favorite past times, to be with your partner. A recipe for failure, and the building of resentments.
These are 3 of the biggest relationship wreckers, and if you AVOID THEM EARLY, OR AT THE VERY LEAST NOTICE THEM, YOU CAN GIVE YOURSELF THE BEST CHANCE FOR LASTING LOVE.
For 25 years, we have helped couples and singles create lasting deep love. Let us help you.
Information at www.davidessel.com or call Jennifer 239.340.2470 or David 941 266 7676.
Monday, September 16, 2013
Why do men and women cheat in love? 3 top reasons From our XM Radio Show
Every weekend, we cover the relationship topics that really matter, in a sane way.
So, why do men and women cheat in love?
Why is infidelity so real?
Over the past 25 years, we have helped millions of people through our workshops and 1 on 1 sessions understand this crucial topic.
And no, it is not because monogamy is created by society and we are just lust driven creatures.
Top 3 reasons why we cheat:
1. Resentments that have not been released. Forgiveness for past regressions has never occurred.
2. Due to resentments, someone shuts down in bed.
3. Addictions, to shopping, food, work, alcohol etc becomes the primary focus of a partner, pushing the other one away into the arms of another.
While simple, the above is real.
If you need help, contact us at www.davidessel.com or 941 266 7676. love, david
So, why do men and women cheat in love?
Why is infidelity so real?
Over the past 25 years, we have helped millions of people through our workshops and 1 on 1 sessions understand this crucial topic.
And no, it is not because monogamy is created by society and we are just lust driven creatures.
Top 3 reasons why we cheat:
1. Resentments that have not been released. Forgiveness for past regressions has never occurred.
2. Due to resentments, someone shuts down in bed.
3. Addictions, to shopping, food, work, alcohol etc becomes the primary focus of a partner, pushing the other one away into the arms of another.
While simple, the above is real.
If you need help, contact us at www.davidessel.com or 941 266 7676. love, david
Saturday, September 7, 2013
David Essel Alive! XM radio guests, Sat. Sept 7
David Essel Alive Sat, September 7th
Positive Talk Radio! David Essel Alive! Every Saturday, 6-9pm est, 3-6pm pst, XM Radio CH 246, and streaming FREE at www.davidessel.com . Proud to be a part of the Premiere Radio Network, celebrating 22 years in talk radio. This weeks guests: (**** Moving Oct 19th to iheartradio.com, every Sat. 6-9pm est! 40 million listeners and growing!)
ANOTHER AWESOME SHOW! AND ALWAYS, YOUR CALLS ABOUT TOPICS THAT MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE. 800.548.8255
.......James "Smitty" Smith- Host, In This Corner TV....What separates great athletes from average ones? What can we learn from the pro's who come back from defeat, to rise to be champions again, and apply these principles to our lives? Smitty shares his expertise, to inspire you to greatness.
Website: inthiscornertv.com
.......Stepfanie Romine co-author of The Spark Solution: A Complete Two-Week Diet Program to Fast-Track Weight Loss and Total Body Health.....70% of Americans are overweight or obese....time to change that today!
Website: www.sparkpeople.com
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.......April O'Leary- Happy Mom Conference update! How can moms be happier, wealthier and wiser? Tune in!
......Dr. Michael Murray- Stress, Anxiety and Insomnia- What the Drug Companies Won't Tell You and Your Doctor Doesn't Know .....We will find out the answers on our show!
Website: www.doctormurray.com
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