Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Success: From clean shoes, a clean car? Watch.

Can success in life be the end result of wearing clean polished shoes and having a clean car? What in the world can these two things have to do with personal success?

We often put too much emphasis on the BIG things in life when it comes to generating the energy to attract new levels of success to us. Watch this short video to see what I mean.


Slow down, take care of the seemingly little things in life, and watch your sense of success grow.

Love, david http://www.davidessel.com

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Sitting on the fence in life? Hell on Earth.

There is no doubt in my mind, that we can create our own personal hell on earth by choosing to sit on the fence in regards to any part of our existence.

The longer we choose to not make a decision that needs to be made, about a current relationship, health issue, career position or addiction challenge, the longer our own experience of hell will be.

Watch this short video to see what I mean.


Slow down, get off the fence, and move to your own personal Heaven on Earth.

Love, david http://www.davidessel.com

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Coffee: A health drink? Part 2

Coffee is King...and Queen of Health Drinks
(Part 2)

It may come as a surprise to many that almost 110 million Americans drink coffee everyday, and as noted in a previous column, it’s just not for breakfast anymore.

A coffee researcher (yes there is such a field of study!) from Vanderbilt University, Dr. Tomas DePaulis, says that not only do regular coffee drinkers have a decreased chance of developing the debilitating condition of Parkinson’s disease, but that the latest drugs to treat this condition utilize a derivative of caffeine.

We all know that caffeine boosts energy, but did you also realize that for some people it can aid in decreasing a headache? That’s why the makers of products like Excedrin have it listed as one of its major ingredients.

Along with caffeine coffee also contains powerful antioxidants, which may be one of the reasons it can be beneficial in helping the body in a variety of ways. Recent studies reported in The Journal of the National Cancer Institute shared some downright amazing information: that coffee may significantly lower the risk of colon and liver cancers.

With all of this great news about the benefits of coffee consumption though, we must also look at the downside of the popular drink. Specialty coffees, like a double mocha latte, can have as much or more sugar, calories and fat than a fast food meal! And people who smoke and drink coffee may be at a much greater risk for heart disease. Studies linking high blood pressure and coffee are not as conclusive, but if you suffer from this condition it would be wise to cut down on your coffee consumption.

As a coffee lover myself, I made the switch a number of years ago to drinking my morning brew as a mixture of 1/2 regular and 1/2 decaffeinated, hedging my bets that moderation may just be the key to better health in everything we do..

Wishing You Love and Peace,

David Essel, M.S.
www.davidessel.com
Author, Radio & Television Host, Lifestyle Coach

(Editor’s Note: For more success stories and the full eating and exercise plan, please review David’s book Slow Down: The Fastest Way to Get Everything You Want at Barnes and Noble and other fine local bookstores as well aswww.Amazon.com.)

Monday, April 11, 2011

Movie: "The Fighter" : Applying it to your life now.

The movie "The Fighter" , if the principles in it are applied to our lives , could create some incredibly positive changes for each of us today.

Based on a true life story, this fight movie is unlike many others in the simple way that most of the movie has little to do with actual boxing, but more with the principles surrounding success, in life.

Watch this short video to see what I mean.


Today, decide to follow these principles in your own life.

Slow down, and make the changes necessary, so that you can begin to see the positive changes you desire, now.

Love, David http://www.davidessel.com

Friday, April 8, 2011

How to "attract money"...for our personal growth.

So many people I've met over the years have said that they would love to change their personal lives, if they only had the money to do so. In other words, their personal growth is important to them, but they do not have the money to hire the trainer, attend a seminar, get sober of go back to school.

This is such a shame, because a lack of money is really just an excuse that we are not serious yet about taking care, of ourselves.

Sound harsh? Watch this video to see what I mean.


Slow down, and go after that desire that is most important for your own personal growth.

Love, David http://www.davidessel.com

Thursday, April 7, 2011

The #1 Dating tip in the world?

Do you know what the number one dating tip in the world is? Can you even take a wild guess?

Most of us, including myself until a number of years ago, would probably be guessing...dead wrong. It's not about setting intentions or positive affirmations or even a vision board with photo's of couples in love.

No, it's much more important than all of those steps combined. Watch this short video to see what I mean.


Now that you know what the number one dating tip in the world is, are you ready to apply it to your own life?

Slow down. Live with love.

Love, David. http://www.davidessel.com

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Coffee: A health drink?

Slow Down … Enjoy Life!

Coffee is King ... And Queen of Health Drinks?

Whether you call it Java, Jo or Brew, more Americans are visiting coffee shops, bistros and specialty restaurants now for their daily energy booster than researchers can ever remember.

The noon martini has been swiftly replaced by a latte or espresso, making lunch meetings or afternoon social gatherings a healthier experience. Business “mastermind” groups, popularized in the 50’s & 60’s, by admirers of Napoleon Hill, author of Think & Grow Rich, have come back in vogue as entrepreneurs and managers meet in the early mornings over specialty coffees to keep their creative juices flowing.

And now, fascinating news from the world of medicine is supporting the trend of coffee consumption in our country.

Harvard researchers recently reported that those who drink 6 cups or more each day decreased the risk of diabetes in men and women, by an incredible 54% & 30% respectively over coffee avoiders.

What’s even more powerful about this particular study is the fact that this trial involved data on over 120,000 people for 18 years. Direct medical costs for the treatment of diabetes in the United States exceeded $130 billion in the year 2003, making this finding a possible important key to reducing this deadly disease.

Of course, for caffeine sensitive individuals, a more moderate level of coffee consumption may be recommended to decrease the possible side effects of nervousness or insomnia. Either way, coffee consumption is here to stay.

Wishing You Love and Peace,

David Essel, M.S.
www.davidessel.com
Author, Radio & Television Host, Lifestyle Coach

(Editor’s Note: For more success stories and the full eating and exercise plan, please review David’s book Slow Down: The Fastest Way to Get Everything You Want at Barnes and Noble and other fine local bookstores as well aswww.Amazon.com.)

Monday, April 4, 2011

Dating with a purpose, a focus, a reason?

Over the years so many clients I've worked with who were in the world of dating, we doing so without a real focus, a purpose, a passion.

At first they would claim that they were focused, but when the question would be raised, of why they allowed themselves to consistently stay in unhealthy relationships......they saw indeed that they were not as focused as they thought they were.

Watch this short video...


Now, as you head out into the world of dating, be ready, be real, be focused...to find what you are truly looking for.

Love, David http://www.davidessel.com

Lovers, with separate bedrooms? Really?

Two people who are in love, are supposed to sleep together, right? I mean isn't that the reason we commit to each other? To share the closeness and intimacy, that we do not with others?

Over the years, this topic has come up again and again in my life coaching practice. Some say yes, they should sleep together regardless of work schedules etc. Others say we should be flexible in our approach to this topic.

Watch this short video to see the truth about this topic.


Slow down, to make the best decision for your life, and love.

Love, David http://www.davidessel.com

Friday, April 1, 2011

Is there a downside, for being honest?

Since we were little kids, we've been told that the path to a great life, is to "always be honest". But could there be, a downside, to living an honest life?

The answer, which may surprise many, is yes. As a mater of fact, if you are truly living an honest life, you'll find that there are in face many challenges associated with being honest.

Watch this brief video, to see what we mean.


Slow down, and realize, that with honesty there are challenges, but the end result, is a life, that you are proud to be living.

Love, David http://www.davidessel.com