The Joy of Sex ...Now

As I listen to my clients concerns on a weekly basis, there seems to be an overwhelming loss of connection sexually with many of them and their partners.

Some blame the stress of the economy, others the rising responsibilities of family, school, and the juggling of other activities.

It concerns me greatly when I see a trend like this, as sex, sensuality and the deep intimacy that arises from this between two people is one of the greatest gifts relationships offer.

We hold, kiss, stroke and join in sexual union as to experience the divine and the human in one beautiful dance.

So when this is gone, or diminishes greatly, what are we left with???

Instead of answering that question, I'd rather have you focus on what we have, how deep our relationships can go...when we make sure that physical intimacy of all types.... from the holding of hands in public, to the text just to say hi, to a slow kiss, gazing in your lovers eyes, to the joining, releasing, and then joining again in sexual union ...stays a priority in your life right now.

Slow down.

Create a deeper bond regardless of what's going on in your outer world, by committing today to keep your inner world fulfilled through the regular act of sexual intimacy.

Love, peace, David Essel www.talkdavid.com

The Economy : Unseen Growth Is Here

There has been an amazing shift in our economy, as the growth that so many are waiting and hoping for is finally here, unseen by some, but definitely here.

Deals and bargains, coupons and more are fueling the trend. Payment plans will continue to increase, allowing more people to do what they want/need to do, without pulling them into payments they can not afford.

Living within our means has finally caught our attention, and most of us will finally be in a much better position financially as we scale back, and purchase withing what is affordable to us.

All of this is incredibly great news, but do not expect to see it in our media, TV, radio, newspapers anytime soon.

Why? Because sensationalism sells.Period.

Negativity sells.

The good news, that is creeping up all around us in society, will not sell until everyone sees that the negative stories are too old to grab attention.

We see in our business a total shift..people WANT the good news.

They are joining our workshops, hiring us as consultants and coaches, attending our lectures in powerful numbers compared to just 6 months ago!

And when I talk to other inspirational speakers, positive mindset presenters, their experience is the same.

We have broken out of the doom and gloom, and prosperity is all around us.

I hope you'll join us, as life has become so much more enjoyable, more productive and more abundant.

Slow down.

Love, peace David Essel www.talkdavid.com

The New Economy....Get Creative

We are entrenched in a new economy that is demanding of us a new, higher level of creativity if we still want to be successful in life.

It's not better than, or worse than, any other time in our lives. It's just different.

What makes it good...or bad...or hellish as many people are griping right now, is the way you are looking at it.

Yes, perception is reality.

If you want to stew in negativity, stay glued to the news.

If you want to be prosperous, and more at peace, look at these times as an opportunity to get your creative juices flowing.

Create new partnerships with other people and companies.

Offer an even greater amount of service to existing and new clients.

Demand of yourself more...more attention...more love for others...go to a whole new level of living, not just for money, but for the joy of being alive.

When we are creative, either by choice or because the worlds landscape is changing around us, we automatically rise to a new level of existence.

Slow Down.

Take a big breath, and reach out to others.

Ask for help, and offer assistance.

And realize your life is created by you, your thoughts, your beliefs.

If you don't like what you see, be the catalyst to change. No one else can do it for you.

Oh, and turn off the news.

Love, Peace, David Essel. www.talkdavid.com

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"Thinking " your way through challenging times

The last few months have been filled with coaching sessions with clients who are facing a variety of challenges.

The loss of a beloved pet.

The loss of employment.

The loss of a relationship.

The loss of a parent.

The loss of a child.

Through all of these challenges a question that has arisen many many times is, "is it possible to think my way through these difficulties?"

The answer is yes, and no.

Yes, we can distract ourselves by thinking of solutions to our challenge, or by finding gratitude for what we DO have that is going well........

But no, this is not the only solution for us to look for.

The other key is to "Feel, deeply feel" the loss that we have recently experienced. Now this is the part of personal growth that a lot of us do not want to look at, for the simple reason that it is hard. It's uncomfortable, which is why it's such a valuable tool to use to help us to heal.

So, when faced with a loss, yes, look for solutions.

Also, go into the fire of the loss and feel the pain, the loneliness, the angst. If you chose, do this with a friend, coach, therapist or minister as well.

There is comfort in numbers.

Slow down to heal.

Love, peace, David Essel. http://www.talkdavid.com/